Potty Training emotions – The process of potty training can sometimes be an emotional rollercoaster for both parents and children, and it’s important for parents to be aware of this. It can be a challenging process, and sometimes it may be accompanied by frustration and disappointment.
Of course, there are exceptions where things go smoothly quickly, so don’t immediately assume the worst-case scenario. However, we find it important to write a blog so that you, as a parent, know how to deal with these emotions and how to help your child develop a positive self-image and self-confidence.
The cause Potty Training emotions
It’s very normal for children to experience frustrations and disappointments during potty training. They want to show that they are independent and in control of their bodies, but sometimes accidents happen, leading to disappointment or frustration. It’s crucial for parents to understand that these emotions are part of the process and are not a sign of failure or that your child isn’t suitable for potty training.
How to deal with it?
A good way to handle your child’s potty training emotions is by encouraging and supporting them. This can be done in various ways, such as giving your child positive feedback, showing understanding, and emphasizing how well they are doing, even if accidents occur. It’s important to make it clear to your child that accidents happen, and they can learn from them, and that making mistakes is okay. An accident is actually a sneaky little success that brings them closer to the goal.
Proper preparation
What can also help is involving your child in the entire process of potty training. For example, ask them to help choose (new) underwear or to stick stickers on a sticker chart after a success so that your child can see how well they are doing and what the progress is. By involving your child in the process, they’ll feel more responsible and motivated to succeed. Proper preparation also ensures that you both start the potty training journey more relaxed.
Your own emotions
As a parent, it’s also important to be able to control your own emotions. It can be very difficult to stay calm and composed when your child has yet another accident, but it’s also crucial to avoid making your child feel stressed or ashamed by your reaction. Make sure to approach your child in a calm, supportive, and positive manner and let them know that you’re always there for them.
Having realistic expectations of the potty training process can also help. Every child is different, and it may take longer for some children to become potty trained. It’s important to understand that this is a natural part of development and that your child needs time and support to succeed. Also, try not to put too much pressure on your child, as this can also lead to anxiety and stress. Therefore, pay close attention to the signals to see if your child is ready and do it at your child’s pace. If you’re unsure if your child is ready, look for the signs.
Lastly, rewarding your child for their efforts can help. This can be in the form of positive feedback or a big compliment, with fun stickers or small gifts. Remember that rewards are not a replacement for love and support, but rather an addition to it.
Did you, as a parent, struggle with potty training emotions? Let us know via DM or email so we can help you further. If you’ve ordered the Potty Training Box, you can also gain access to our Facebook Support Group where you can share your story with other parents, and we and they can help you get started. You’ll see that you’re not the only one experiencing frustration and/or disappointment during potty training.
We also regularly post on Instagram and Facebook about potty training emotions, mindset and calmness. And we’ve also written another blogs about potty training.